Probably the most frequently asked question I hear from divorce clients and prospective clients is “should I file first or let my spouse file for divorce?” Some people ask because they’re undecided about filing for divorce, but fear being put at a strategic disadvantage if their spouse beats them to the courthouse. Others have made up their minds, but maybe need time to plan, including selection of an attorney, ensuring their safety in cases of domestic violence or simply gathering information … [Read more...]